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Can People Change?

This post is dedicated to the leaders, managers, parents, significant others & anyone else who spends time looking at someone in your circle of influence pondering the question, “Why won’t they change?”

We all have an area of our life that could use a little adjustment, modification, or improvement.  We’re also surrounded by others who could use a little adjustment, modification, or improvement – A Change!!!

Many of us spend an inordinate amount of time, energy, and resources focusing on the change that someone else needs to make.  A change, I might add, that the other person frequently denies the need for or doesn’t value.

I am proponent of change.  I believe in change.  Change is possible.

But there are two facts about change I’ve learned:

1. People can change.

2. You can’t change them.

For what it’s worth, I suggest we spend time addressing and navigating the areas of our own lives that need change and let others be responsible for addressing and navigating their own change.

Remember, people can change, but you can’t change them.


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